Have you ever at one given time thought of energies relating to genders? Like masculine energy or feminine energy?
We are encouraged to read because you never know what you could learn for the day. I can’t get enough of reading, be it blogs, books or anything that could be of interest to my being because I prefer reading to talking. During those reading sessions of mine, I came across something that I have never really given much thought to, but as I perused through the pages, I got to pick a few things which can activate any woman’s feminine energy.
Feminine energy is the energy of “being” unlike the “doing” energy which is associated with our male counterparts. There is a debate that has been raging on that nowadays the girl child is more empowered than the boy child. I digress, but while that may be true, in some ways, I don’t see any big deal as women are just meant to be women and men are meant to be men. We all got same opportunities and as a woman you can be anything you want to be. Women have more choices and options today than back in the days. Feminine energy isn’t about equality, it’s simply existing as a woman. It’s knowing that your career or properties that you have acquired over time don’t define you. It’s knowing who you are, knowing yourself and maximizing on your unique strengths. It’s knowing there is more to your being as a woman than what we see on the outside. This woman may not appeal to the modern setting, but all I’m saying is that it’s okay to be you and you can choose whatever you want to do with your life without feeling the need to prove anything to anyone.
Every woman has a feminine flow in them and they have to learn to tap into that energy. It’s the sort of energy that is powerful and calming at the same time. It’s the fulfilling energy that is constant no matter what. That warm and inviting energy .It is said that the more feminine you are, the more masculine energy you attract in a man. That means if you got a lot of masculine energy in you as a woman, you attract feminine men….ouch!
I’m sure as women we want to attract men who have loads of masculine energy in them, and that calls for a number of things that have to be checked and worked on. Here are some ways to activating your feminine energy
Be happy and fulfilled
A lot of things happen in our lives as women that make us bitter and angry, and that bitterness may be carried over a long time. Let go of that anger and resentment. If it’s a heartbreak you are experiencing, loss of a job, anything that could have possibly gone wrong in the past, take time and get over it without dwelling on should haves or should nots, that could have possibly been done and move forward happy and content that it was not meant to be. New opportunities, new people will surely grace your life in due time. Happiness is a choice. Choose happiness and happiness will choose you in return.
Be in touch with your heart more often
While it’s important to be logical about every decision you make, it’s also advisable to check in with your heart and womb. Intuitions come in handy and are God-given. If it feels right, then it must be right, if you are skeptical about something or someone, take your time. You will soon find out the reason. Just learn to trust your instincts more! Care for yourself more, you can only receive what you want when you wholeheartedly give it to yourself first.
Have something that speaks to you
Speaking life to your being does wonders. It’s not something that will take effect immediately but I can assure you with time you will start to see improvements in how you feel about yourself and your outlook towards life generally. You can have something addressed to yourself for example, “I am amazing”, “I am brilliant “, and “I am safe” and so on. The idea may come off as a stupid practice but it goes without saying your mind believes what you tell it. Feed your mind with positive vibes.
Hang out with other women
They say women are their worst enemies. I beg to differ. I’m of the opinion that only women who are insecure with their being create that enmity within themselves. I enjoy hanging out with my fellow mamas. I learn a lot of things from their experiences, attitude and nature. Women are empowering and powerful at the same time. Their laughter is contagious, their resilience is recommendable and their company breeds growth. It’s easier to drop the masks and just be yourself with other females around. I’m grateful for special women i have in my life. They have been awesome in any given situation and to be honest, life is easier having them around. May God bless my beauties!
Enjoy some silence
Immerse yourself in some quietness. Silence your mind and everything else that surrounds you and just feel and be in the moment. That quietness is refreshing especially if you have had a rough time and you just feel drained and exhausted. Personally I prefer these sessions done on some nights since there are less activities compared to day time. After a long productive or even stressful day, the best way to recharge is enjoying some silence which makes you calmer and awakens your awareness plus you also get to detoxify mentally.
Try something new every now and then
This could be a new hairstyle, a new different outfit, a dance, a photo shoot, a massage, a walk, cycling, anything new you can think of is worth trying out. There is something exciting about trying out new things at least for me. My being lights up and gets excited in a way that also surprises me. Feminine energy is a moving energy and having it boring doesn’t feed that for sure. Just go with what works for you.
Do away with negative people
There is something unique and special in each and every woman. Having people who are always putting you down and criticizing you is not the way to go. Someone once quoted “Some people are like clouds, when they are gone, it’s a beautiful day”. Your feminine energy can’t respond to such people in your circle, you got to weed out any person who belittles you and makes you feel less of a woman. Don’t compare yourself with other women, you are more than enough as you are! Should you be following people in social medial who make you feel pathetic about yourself, kindly unfollow those buggers! Thank me later.
Appreciate your menstrual cycle
Most women dread this time of the month. It comes with its own shares of moods and restlessness which is nothing good to write home about. That shouldn’t be the case, instead honor and embrace your periods, look at it as that time of the month where you are experiencing a sort of special release, a form of negative energy that somehow ought to be released and look forward to better days filled with positivity.
Be open to receiving
It is said that masculine energy is a penetrative energy while feminine energy is a receptive energy. Basically by receiving attention and love, your feminine energy thrives. By being receptive I don’t mean sexual encounters, but if that feeds your being, it is okay to roll with it. What I mean is acts like being cooked for a nice meal, massages, manicures and pedicures do a lot of justice to the feminine energy.
Set your man free and Let him Lead
This may be a challenge to most women but the truth is, you got to learn to set your man free and let him know that you trust him to make the right decisions. The masculine energy is characterized by being on a mission and wanting to conquer, and this can only be made possible if the feminine energy surrenders and grants that freedom. To be able to achieve this you got to trust your feminine energy as well no matter what. Your energy as a woman can’t fail you. The Masculine energy thrives more when challenged and stretched, which is more beneficial to the feminine energy.
Enjoy more Orgasms
This one is a full dose to the feminine energy. While it’s easier for a man to squash his masculine energy by ejaculating frequently, women who experience orgasms more often are on another marinated planet that is fulfilling to the feminine energy sexually speaking. It’s essential to learn what works for you as a woman and I challenge you to teach your man to get you to the moon and back. You really don’t want to go to a session of lovemaking or sexing and come out of there unattended on. Honestly speaking, that shit sucks. The benefits of experiencing organisms are quite impressive talk of enjoying better sleep, having a glowing skin, looking younger, stimulating your brain, I mean the list is endless. Which woman wants to miss out on such benefits not forgetting the pleasure? Well, better choose your battles!